Aesthetics vs Character
To make beauty the fulcrum upon which you make your decision in choosing a life partner is absurd and a demonstration of negligence and ignorance. While it is a blessing (God's common grace) to find people attractive, we should not be found using that as the meter for judging people as to whether they are fit or not to take a stand side by side with us in our journey through life. Beauty is like water. Trying to lay hold of it is a futile task because in little or no time you are definitely going to loose it. Either by virture of the poor contenance of the digits of your hand or by viture of evaporation. No wonder in the description of the virteous women in Proverb 31, there's no allusion to beauty in her praise. But rather a counter in the 30th verse of that same chapter.